Why is nappy hair considered ugly. Is this something that have been taught for thousands of years. I actually find it beautiful. Its thick, its full and you can do alot with it. I love curly and wavy hair too. I notice this though that nappy hair is so undesirable.

Keep it natural cc! ur def doing the right thing you're hair is going to grow so looong! Try and avoid anything with mineral oil, petrolatum as these coat the hair shaft without penetrating it, try and give your hair as much moisture as possible, i make a lil concoction of coconut oil, K2H conditioner, jennifer myers oil and water and it keeps my hair hydrated.

Look into http://www.nauturallycurly.com, they have hair products for straight type 1 hair to kinky-coily type 4  curly 3's and wavy 2's. its great you can get products for your own specific hairtype. Afro hair is beautiful and no two heads of hair are the same.

Also check out http://www.roundhairbrush.com- they do some great dominican products for blowouts.

And http://www.jennifermyers.co.uk- i use this oil and its great, pricy but it works like a dream

I  remember when i cut my relaxer off to start again i had a mini afro before my hair developed into curls, my roots are tight to begin with then the curl forms, i think i have 3c/3b/4a type hair

Oh forgot to add persia white uses this oil too.

Jennifer Myers is black british, has 4b afro hair, it's just blown out so she's living proof

afro hair can be beautiful i've actually met her, she's a lot darker in person, just the lights are bright from the cameras. Its so funny wherever she goes people are always beggin to touch her hair its so beautiful even i had to resist the urge.

Kinky sounds better than nappy but hey it is what it is lol because with no moisterization/oils kinky/curly hair can be nappy. I know this because my hair is like this when dry.